Sorry for the late notice, but hope this helps anyone still confused on what to wear. There were many definitions for wedding attire, but to spell this out clearly. as clearly as we are able.
For men please have at minimum long pants, coat, and tie. If you are comfortable in a black tie tux that is wonderful, but somewhere between these two options is perfect.
For the ladies, if you have already gone above and beyond this again we are very excited, but if you are still curious then working off of - https://www.brides.com/search?q=Every+Wedding+Dress+Code - aim for something between Semi-Formal and Cocktail attire. Again I apologize for any confusion but we are so happy you will be joining us this weekend. God's Peace, Tray Light.